Sunday, 6 December 2009

I COULD jump on the bandwagon and like,

write about my friends. but, they know who they are, and they don't need words written about them, plus, i'd feel bad that i missed someone off or something :)
plus, i'd feel weird, if like, i put them on my list, even though we dont talk much, and then they'd bitch or chat about me saying: ''omg why did dani put me on her list. we never talk! eugh.. weirdo''

m.
so i'll write about something else.


Parents.
As much as they annoy me, my guardians are the most laid back people I know.

I'm allowed to go to any party, any gig, anyones house (even boys) and allowed pretty much anyone over, and allowed out at any time.
So, of course what I'm about to say, will be sort of biased, from how I've been raised,

Ok, as I live with my grandparents, perhaps they're easier to get round? as I know my mum wouldn't let me do any of those things, but she'd let me buy and drink alcohol.
Which my nan knows I do, and wouldn't ever buy me alchohol, and dissaproves.
But other than that, i wouldnt be allowed to to go parties, or have boys round, or vice versa.

So, I was wandering, why parents are so shit?!
I mean, surely they were children once, and honestly I'm not being an angsty teenager, I wish they'd listen to you. This goes for teachers as well.
Honest to god they just think we're being purposefully moody, when we're not really.
Most of the time, when you try and have an adult conversation with them, they'll call you pretentiious or think you're being cheeky.

Adults.
I'd love to be a teacher, just so I could be awesome.
anyway
back t orant about parents.
yes.


the amount of times i have heard, oh yeh my mum wouldn't let me. blah blah blah.
well why?
I mean, why are parents so evil?
and why do peoples dads tend to be nicer than peoples mums?:
hm.

I mean, if a parent wont let you out, there isn't really any reason to it. I dont understand

Now, something happened this weekend, which I wont elaborate on, but all the same I got pretty annoyed.
I mean, fairenough, being a mother, it is your house,your rules, your children,
but you cant STOP people from doing anything.
Especially if they weren't doing it in the first place.


You also, cannot impose YOUR views on your child and their friends. It's not right. At 15, we have our own opinoins, and ways in which we're going to go about our lives.
Be a parent, be understanding, have you're little rules, but DO NOT impose views upon us like that.
Have an opinion, but that doesn't mean your children will have the same opinion as you.

I know, it is hard, One minute we need you to hold our hands just to get down the stairs. we want hugs and kisses, and we need help with homework, then, in the blink of an eye,
we're going out on weekends, never talking to you, never giving you hugs, kisses, last minute birthday presents, getting annoyed when you try and tell us off, get annoyed when you try to help us. Essentially, it seems like we only need you for food and shelter now.

That must be hard, seeming as if you're not wanted.
But, surely then, just go with it for now. Teenagers have this sterotype of being moody and stubborn, but its not.
its the bridge to adulthood, finding who we are and what we like.


The mother i'm on about,

i understand, but i don't much agree with your point of view.
Its my life. I'll decide this decision for myself, as at the end of the day, it really is none of your buisness.
what sort of mother does that in the first place.


euuurgh.

ok, i have to do french. yay.
but
thats pretty much my little rant over.


pigfrazzles. :)

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